What do you really want to achieve that you have not yet achieved? What gives you fulfillment? What motivates you to want to live a successful life?How can you live the life you have always dreamt about?
You remember your old school mate you saw recently at the mall with his family and you saw him drove off in that car that you have always desired so much. How can you live this successful life?
You read an article somewhere about a young man who is living his dream and you wonder when will i start living the way i have always wanted to live?
You have heard many times that the way to happiness and true success and fulfilment is when you become self employed and you started a business which you have always thought about and five months down the line you have lost steam and you have no clue what you are doing again and you just felt as if you have wasted your life.
All the illustrations i have made above has one solution, what do you think about? What you think about is what you attract into your life. That is what this post is all about. How you can attract what you want, how you can attract your ideal life of success. How you can achieve your dreams.
Here are some steps you can take to achieve your ideal life:
1. Think thoughts of good, happiness, joy, goodness, fulfillment. Think of things that make you happy. Think of times in the past that you helped someone and the person was so grateful that you helped them. Think of righteous things. Think of what you would do when you achieve this life that you want. Think of that ideal life that you want.
2. Don't think any negative thoughts. Don't think any bad thoughts.
3. For example if you want to stop smoking, don't think of the pleasures you had when you smoked. Rather associate that pleasure with pain so that each time you think about doing it again, its the picture of the pain that will come to your mind and not the pleasure.
4. For you to live a successful by thinking right, you must persevere and be consistent with maintaining such good thoughts. Just like it is harder to build a house and it takes less time to bring it down, so also its going to take much effort to achieve this new life of success,BUT be encouraged if you don't give up you will get it.
5. Never never never give up. if you want a successful life then go for a life of success and don't stop until you get it.
Friday, September 30, 2011
Thursday, September 29, 2011
THINK LIKE A MILLIONAIRE
What makes a millioniare? A tireless work ethic? A high IQ? luck? Good financial karma?Family Inheritance?None of the above, says Kathleen Gurney, Ph.D., author of "Your Money Personality" and CEO of Financialpsychology.com. Her study reveals that the following set of behavioral characteristics is what makes a millionaire.
1. Millionaires are optimistic.
2. Millionaires are noncritical of their own mistakes. Nothing really throws them.
3. Millionaires take action. They don't get locked in analysis-paralysis.
4. Millionaires listen for opportunity. They don't spend time thinking about what's wrong or why something didn't work.
5. Millionaires have a master plan. i.e., Yale class of 1953 -- 3% had written down their financial goals for after college. When they convened in 1973, that 3% controlled more combined net worth than the other 97% combined.
6. Millionaires feel they deserve every penny they make. There's no guilt.
7. Millionaires are savvy investors (usually save between 15-20% of their income yearly); they know that more risk generates more income.
8. Millionaires do what they love and find a way to make money at it.
9. Millionaires surround themselves with people who believe in them and support their goals. "The general population," says Brian Koslow, author of 365 Ways to Become A Millionaire, will even be in primary relationships with people who don't believe in them, which is very sad--like having a lead weight attached to your ankle."
10. Millionaires are very confident about their money-making skills and love of doing it. "The 'Money Masters,'" says Gurney, as she calls them, "said that if they lost all their money for some reason, they wouldn't be very anxious, because they would just do it over again and get the money back."
If you want to become a millionaire, start thinking like one! Now you know how to do that.
1. Millionaires are optimistic.
2. Millionaires are noncritical of their own mistakes. Nothing really throws them.
3. Millionaires take action. They don't get locked in analysis-paralysis.
4. Millionaires listen for opportunity. They don't spend time thinking about what's wrong or why something didn't work.
5. Millionaires have a master plan. i.e., Yale class of 1953 -- 3% had written down their financial goals for after college. When they convened in 1973, that 3% controlled more combined net worth than the other 97% combined.
6. Millionaires feel they deserve every penny they make. There's no guilt.
7. Millionaires are savvy investors (usually save between 15-20% of their income yearly); they know that more risk generates more income.
8. Millionaires do what they love and find a way to make money at it.
9. Millionaires surround themselves with people who believe in them and support their goals. "The general population," says Brian Koslow, author of 365 Ways to Become A Millionaire, will even be in primary relationships with people who don't believe in them, which is very sad--like having a lead weight attached to your ankle."
10. Millionaires are very confident about their money-making skills and love of doing it. "The 'Money Masters,'" says Gurney, as she calls them, "said that if they lost all their money for some reason, they wouldn't be very anxious, because they would just do it over again and get the money back."
If you want to become a millionaire, start thinking like one! Now you know how to do that.
30 STEPS TO A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP
* Accept differences.
* Be polite.
* Be gentle.
* Give gifts.
* Smile often.
* Talk about dreams.
* Select a song that can be "our Song".
* Laugh together.
* Send a card for no reason.
* Do what the other person wants before he or she asks.
* Listen.
* Encourage.
* Do it his or her way.
* Know his or her needs.
* Compliment twice a day.
* Call during the day.
* Slow down.
* Ask for each other's opinion.
* Show respect.
* Welcome the other person home.
* Look your best.
* Wink at each other.
* Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy.
* Admit when wrong.
* Be sensitive to each other's desires.
* Pray for each other daily.
* Watch sunsets together.
* Say "I love you" frequently.
* Seek outside help when needed
* Pray for each other daily
* Be polite.
* Be gentle.
* Give gifts.
* Smile often.
* Talk about dreams.
* Select a song that can be "our Song".
* Laugh together.
* Send a card for no reason.
* Do what the other person wants before he or she asks.
* Listen.
* Encourage.
* Do it his or her way.
* Know his or her needs.
* Compliment twice a day.
* Call during the day.
* Slow down.
* Ask for each other's opinion.
* Show respect.
* Welcome the other person home.
* Look your best.
* Wink at each other.
* Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy.
* Admit when wrong.
* Be sensitive to each other's desires.
* Pray for each other daily.
* Watch sunsets together.
* Say "I love you" frequently.
* Seek outside help when needed
* Pray for each other daily
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Living a Successful Life - 5 Tips For A Successful Life
We all desire to have a successful life but not all of us are willing to make the necessary adjustments in our life to make it a successful life. I have compiled a list 5 tips needed for a successful living and anyone that desires a successful life should follow this tips.
Tip #1- Just begin.
This is the most important habit you must develop as long as you want to have a successful life. It’s the start of any objective that is often the hardest for most of us, because we convince ourselves the task will be unpleasant or boring. However, you can trick yourself into believing that you’re only going to work on it for a few minutes. Grab that egg timer and set it for 15 minutes again. Promise yourself you can stop
working after 15 minutes if you want to, but you have to work at least that long. Most often, after the 15 minutes are up, you’re already “in the groove” so you don’t want to stop! I once read a book that is titled "Start With What You Have" , i like that title. You don't have to wait for perfect conditions before you start to live a successful life. Just start.
Tip #2 - Push yourself harder.
If you think it will take an hour to finish a particular task or goal, make it your mission to finish it in 30 minutes. This is one of the best ways that has helped me live a successful life. If you think you’re capable of a certain amount of productivity, push yourself to increase that output by at least half. Most of us have a terrible habit of coddling and pampering ourselves rather than pushing ourselves to be better and do better. Deciding to take it to the next level can motivate you to keep doing that and blast through any feelings of procrastination.
Tip #3 - Visualize the end result.
We usually avoid working hard or pushing ourselves just for the sake of doing so, but if you focus on a positive benefit to completing your tasks and you want to be successful at it then you’ll feel more inclined to work on them. Set aside 10 minutes before you begin and imagine how you’ll feel when the job is done. Allow yourself to feel the feelings you’ll experience when you’ve accomplished what you set out to do – whether it’s satisfaction, pride, happiness, excitement, or simple relief. .In one word think the thoughts of successful life. This gets the good feelings flowing and motivates you to do what it takes to create that experience “for real.”
Tip #4 - Make a to-do list.
Sometimes confusion can cause a desire to procrastinate because your tasks seem to be too numerous and overwhelming. To combat this, take a sheet of paper and make a detailed list of everything you want to accomplish today. You can list them in order of priority, or categorize like tasks together. As you review
your list, think about ways you can cut the time each task might take, or shortcuts that would enable you to tackle more than one thing at a time. In no time you should be feeling more focused and ready to begin.
Tip #5 - Pray.
If you’re the spiritual type, why not spend a few minutes connecting to your source before you begin a challenging task? Give thanks for the opportunities in your life, and ask for the inspiration, courage and stamina to do a good job. This can help you feel that you’ve got a powerful ally on your side and reduce any feelings of fear or loneliness which can hinder your success in that particular task.
Tip #1- Just begin.
This is the most important habit you must develop as long as you want to have a successful life. It’s the start of any objective that is often the hardest for most of us, because we convince ourselves the task will be unpleasant or boring. However, you can trick yourself into believing that you’re only going to work on it for a few minutes. Grab that egg timer and set it for 15 minutes again. Promise yourself you can stop
working after 15 minutes if you want to, but you have to work at least that long. Most often, after the 15 minutes are up, you’re already “in the groove” so you don’t want to stop! I once read a book that is titled "Start With What You Have" , i like that title. You don't have to wait for perfect conditions before you start to live a successful life. Just start.
Tip #2 - Push yourself harder.
If you think it will take an hour to finish a particular task or goal, make it your mission to finish it in 30 minutes. This is one of the best ways that has helped me live a successful life. If you think you’re capable of a certain amount of productivity, push yourself to increase that output by at least half. Most of us have a terrible habit of coddling and pampering ourselves rather than pushing ourselves to be better and do better. Deciding to take it to the next level can motivate you to keep doing that and blast through any feelings of procrastination.
Tip #3 - Visualize the end result.
We usually avoid working hard or pushing ourselves just for the sake of doing so, but if you focus on a positive benefit to completing your tasks and you want to be successful at it then you’ll feel more inclined to work on them. Set aside 10 minutes before you begin and imagine how you’ll feel when the job is done. Allow yourself to feel the feelings you’ll experience when you’ve accomplished what you set out to do – whether it’s satisfaction, pride, happiness, excitement, or simple relief. .In one word think the thoughts of successful life. This gets the good feelings flowing and motivates you to do what it takes to create that experience “for real.”
Tip #4 - Make a to-do list.
Sometimes confusion can cause a desire to procrastinate because your tasks seem to be too numerous and overwhelming. To combat this, take a sheet of paper and make a detailed list of everything you want to accomplish today. You can list them in order of priority, or categorize like tasks together. As you review
your list, think about ways you can cut the time each task might take, or shortcuts that would enable you to tackle more than one thing at a time. In no time you should be feeling more focused and ready to begin.
Tip #5 - Pray.
If you’re the spiritual type, why not spend a few minutes connecting to your source before you begin a challenging task? Give thanks for the opportunities in your life, and ask for the inspiration, courage and stamina to do a good job. This can help you feel that you’ve got a powerful ally on your side and reduce any feelings of fear or loneliness which can hinder your success in that particular task.
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